Falling in Love again and again

When we are married for a very long time we fall out of the habit of showing affectionate. We becoming like two pieces of furniture lying on two sides of the bed. Sometimes we end up watching the same movie sitting on two different sofas.

It is time to spice up your love life by being a little playful. Re-introduce touching in your relation by sitting close to each other and by touching each other’s hands. Couples underestimate the importance of sex in a  long-term relationships. But remember sex is a physical expression of emotional love. So keep the spark alive.

In marriage it is very important to stay positive. Remember that you are two different individuals so make those adjustments. Nobody can survive in a marriage without being positive in life. Even if we are alone in the house, it is advisable that we do not put each other down.

Keep communicating too each other and don’t say that you don’t find time to talk. Remember with each passing year, our likes and dislikes changes and so does our priorities. And with kids we tend to spend more time with them and that’s very natural. But it is important that we spend that quality time together with our children and also at the same time take out some time to spend with just the two of you. That time together can be the time when your child goes to play in the park with his friends. So during that time if both of you are back from work, go for a walk together. Make your dinner time a fun time by talking to each other. But at the same time give space to each other and don’t breathe into each other’s neck. Grow old together and remember the best is yet to come!