How To View Your Disappointments And Benefit From Them

Posted by Nirmala Subramanian on Thu, May 6, 2010  
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We all have disappointments in life that put us all off and make us feel that we are useless. However to the contrary if we view our disappointments in the right perceptive we can gain from them and make our lives productive. Yes, you are right, we should always be ready to take up the challenges of life and realize our weaknesses, correct them and come out successful.


The moment we want to face new challenges we look out for such opportunities. It may happen that we are successful at times or may also fail. We have to look for other challenges without losing our heart over it. The best perceptive of looking at the challenge is that maybe we did not have all the necessary qualifications for the job. The solution lies in making ourselves up-to-date with the knowledge and skills required to head towards the right direction. The right attitude would be not to fret and stand, but to pull your head up and get into action.


Another perceptive to the same disappointment lies in figuring out if you really needed that challenge badly or you just took it up half-heartedly. Yes, you need to figure out how you should react to this disappointment by right thoughts and emotions instead of getting too deeply involved emotionally. The emotions would depend whether it is the right direction you are heading towards or was it just another distraction coming in the form of a challenge. 


It is very essential that we view disappointments with the main aim of growth and a reminder of our priorities of life.  This will help us from deviating to the wrong path. This will be very useful as it will bring us back to the right path where our priorities and main aim of life lies and will help us to reach our ultimate goal more faster and more efficiently. It is also worthwhile to note that as per the nature of things, we may sometimes be disappointed by not getting what is not for us. We do realize it when we think of it at a future date.  


Pay particular to methods to get over your disappointments. This could make you a very positive person if viewed from the right perceptive. Never lose your individuality and experience faith in yourself. Do not think that making mistakes is disgraceful. Better think of feeling happy about it knowing you learnt something and found a better way to meet the challenges of life.  Successful people framed their lives on the firm rock of mistakes.


So dear friend, I am sure you have figured out and will also agree with me that losing challenges and making mistakes is a part and parcel of every life. However emerging out successful with a proper mindset is all got to do with benefiting from it.


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