Many men fail to realize that women have entirely different sex needs than them. They are of the assumption that women are satisfied in the same way and time as them and make the mistake of initiating their woman to run off with the mailman. Yes, you are right women have different sex motivation signs than men. Different things than men stimulate women. In addition, most woman do not get so easily motivated to have sex with their man unless they feel appreciated and cherished by their man. You need to learn to listen to women, pay attention to what they say and do things they feel happy about so that you can take her to bed and kick-start and run your sexual life.
The first main ingredient of nature that you as a man who wishes to kick-start your sexual life should have is a sense of patience, determination, and love. Your woman needs to feel good about her and to be relaxed for you to be able to run your sexual life with her. So be patient and wait till your woman is comfortable with you. Some women may not like you to start off sexual life on the first few nights. Once she is comfortable with you and you promote her self-esteem, she will be in a position to enjoy sex with you. You should just be patient to understand her needs and do other things with her as well. Never be judgmental about what she says and thinks. .
One needs to stimulate the mind of your woman if you need to kick-start sexual life and wish to run it smoothly. Be good and interesting in conversing with her and be a very patient listener. Yes, it is wrong to assume that all women are the same and are only behind your money. Every woman is different, so it is best to understand your woman before you kick-start and run your sexual life with her. You need to have a life of your own with your hobbies and interests to make an impression upon her.
You need to communicate with your woman and know her fantasies too. Fantasies change often, so make sure you know all about them by asking her to tell you. You could tell her that you wish her to have a orgasm each time you have sex with her. Patience is very important, let her tell you when she feels most comfortable. It is very necessary to find out what your woman’s sexual needs are, what she likes before you start arousing her.
The first thing to kick-start sex is to prepare her for it. You could do various things to prepare her by kissing her or saying endearing words to her. Never be in a hurry to have sex, and let her signal what she wants. It is best to find out how your woman likes to be touched and where to arouse her accordingly. Be simple, slow and gentle and tactfully plan your course of action.
Yes, it is best that you know about a woman’s anatomy before you kick-start and run sex with her. It is best to know from her what positions and methods satisfy her and what hurt. It is best to ask her from time to time. Also it is good to know about the vibrations that she appreciates the most. Some woman may not be satisfied just with the touch by fingers and human tongue. There are sometimes cases where you may have to use vibrators. Do not feel insufficient, as she is sure to get a full organism by the vibrator and will be satisfied.
Once you have aroused her, concentrate on having sex and take your own time. Be sure to deal with premature ejaculation and let go off your tensions and anxieties. While you're stimulating her try to breathe deeply and calm yourself down. Build trust in your relationship with her . Trust is more important than just having intercourse. It is best to concentrate on building more intimacy as opposed to just having sex. Remove the pressure to perform and enjoy the sexuality of each other.
To conclude sex is a wonderful earth-shattering experience. Just be communicative with your woman to kick-start sex and run it to the satisfaction of both of you.
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Women should come forward and discuss female sexuality openly and try to educate male partner instead of waiting for him to ask. Also she should know her partner's level of knowledge of female sexuality. I think sex education at teenage level is must.
Nice blog. It is true that women are taken as granted in sex/in relations/most of times.
Sexuality and female sexual problems are quite different/to be tackled scientifically/with novel HUMAN approach....
Men have to learn many things for maintaining normal healthy sexual relations with their spouse.