The urban educated Indians think the fifties to be the new thirties. In the past it was assumed that women would retire from their sex life when they become menopausal. Women lost their urge for sex as they aged. But today the story is very different. Women these days when they are in their fifties are still enthusiastic about sex. There are a lot of studies which says that having sex increases the happiness quotient, increases the life span and decreases the person of stress and depression.
Sexuality is in your head. Don’t let the young beautiful women around you stress you out. To have a good sex life you need to feel beautiful from within. To feel sexy is a delicate balance of emotional ad physical issues. Sexuality is in the mind. If you mind is willing to have sex you will automatically perform excellently on bed even if you have hit your fifties.
Communicate with your partner. Now that you are older and wiser you become more confident about your sexuality and you can discuss about your preferences with your partner. Just fantasize about sex and try to put it in action. Remember sex is not just about intercourse. It is about feeling good, wanted and loved. Just get a little physical. Learn to hug, kiss and caress.
Sexologist, Dr. Devika Chatterjee, says, “As you grow older it takes a little longer. So be patient and enjoy the moment. Be flexible mentally. When you are in your fifties you are done with your responsibilities so experiment with sex.” And most importantly be cooperative with your partner and pay attention to his needs also.