Women have always wondered why everything changes in their relationships, once they are married to the guy they had dated and known for so long! Women often feel alienated by the love of their lives and ‘demoted’ to the position of a wife, from that of a girlfriend.
Well, here are some things that you need to know, that your guy won't tell you, if you want to keep him the way he was - all interested, attentive and affectionate.
Guys like being the 'boyfriend’ more than the husband:
So, do you have it in you to make him feel that way? Continue to be the chilled-out, young couple that you were before the wedding. Get dressed, go out and don’t be predictable. Come up with pleasant surprises – a new recipe for dinner, a bunch of flowers in the bedroom, and yes, travel and party with him.
Do play a little hard-to-get:
Don't be available all the time. That is definitely seductive and would keep him on his toes. Ask him to make you a cup of tea or fix you a small sandwich. Men can be great nurturers. Also, they like to chase the women they love. Makes your life more interesting!
Be popular with his friends, but shower him with all the attention when in a crowd:
In guy world, the approval of his friends is very important so it makes sense that you get along with them. But don’t let his friends covet you. Don't have endless discussions with them when he's trying to catch your attention. Making him jealous will not do you good in the long run. In short, don’t be too hot for him to handle.
So relax, let your pretty hair down and stop fixating on why ‘things changed’ or when your relationship will end. Men spend lesser time ruminating on such topics. They are just happy to be around wives and girlfriends who do interesting things and have a life! Give your man his space and some attention. That’s all it really takes to keep your relationship alive!