Tips for a healthy relationship in marriage

Hi ,iam back with another blog.Iam writing this blog on demand from my experience as a family therapist also.

Is there a perfect marriage?well what is the equation?General equation is eligible man +eligible woman.Many queries were raised to me asking where can can i find such a partner.Like many things in this world  which are tailor  made, marriage is not.There is no syllabus that tells us that this is equal to that or do this the outcome is this.

Here are a few tips to take into account while in a relationship or anyone who is entering into one -

• Do not Lie in any relationship,honesty should be mainatained even if your relationship is at stake.
• Men love well dressed women,so women,be at your best with a dash of lovely perfume.
• Never change the personality of a person,its inbuilt,the more you change more confusions are going to rise.
• Treat your relatioship with confidentiality,never discuss with near and dear ones, biased opinions confuse the situation more.
• Women lovesurprises, so Men wake up and surprise her by telling her she means the the world to you! you are better of for the rest of your life.
• Pre marital counseling is advisable so that they have an idea of expectations and understand family values.
• Do share responsiblity, doing more of it is enjoyable as you take control of the situation.
• Have atleast one family meal together. Children will remember this to tell their grandchildren.
• Have a look at your wedding album once in a while to cherish the good moments and bring back sweet memories, and of course to warn you if you need to lose the extra pounds gained in the following years.
• Never argue at the sametime, passive behaviour at this point helps to calm  the situation.
• Tell your spouse what you like and dislike, no one can read minds or take things for granted
• Finally, I would say, give 5 yrs of your marriage and you have the rest of the years is in harmony.