Hit him where He Wants

You always thought that women had a G-spot. Well men have it too. So, its pay back time for the ladies.

We have heard about men gossiping about the female G-spot in the locker room. It seems that men are always trying to figure out what pleases women, what gets them off -- but they never seem concerned about their own erogenous zones. Well, today is your day in the sun, gentlemen. Yes, it is the prostrate gland and finally we women have discovered it. When society is becoming so liberal about sex, it’s high time that we start talking about male sexuality as well.

Most men will gasp and bluster when their erogenous spot is zeroed in on. Medical science also affirms the women are not the only ones to have a G-spot. Vinod Rathore, a marine engineer says, ‘‘I never knew that I could have a G-Spot, but now it is scientifically known that even men have G-Spots. It puts us at par with the opposite sex. So women, its time to pay back.’’ Hit him right on the spot you can! This magical male part is the prostrate.

So, what exactly is the prostate? The prostate is a small gland, located within the perineum- the area within the testicles and anus. It is actually a spot entrenched in a man’s anus, which when caressed, gives a man intense pleasure just like a woman’s G-spot. However, unlike the female counterpart, the male G-spot also serves an important biological function.

If you wish to give your man the same extraordinary pleasure he gives you, then stimulating his prostate is what you want to learn how you want to do.When in bed, a man not only expects his lady to know where it lies, but also wants her to explore it. It is highly important for her to know where the turn-on factor lies or else the gentleman shall not perform and the curtain will fall much more in advance.

Mind you... it isn’t just about performing, but also lasting long. ‘‘Knowing a partner’s erogenous zones is what determines the turn-on cycle. Levels of curiosity (to find the zone) and confidence of the body and self (once you’ve found the zone) is what helps sexual partners take a walk on the wild side,’’ exclaims ad man Prahlad Kakkar.

But who said that the Indian women are not good at discovering the male G-spot all by their own. We belong to the land of Kamasutra and this very fact shows that women have enjoyed and reciprocated equally to a man’s sexual needs and can even make a man go crazy with her sexuality.

This whole method of foreplay should be done at a snail's pace because an unhurried velocity will only increase your desire for more, and will also allow for both of you to adjust to this new sensation. The prostate can be reached internally by inserting a lubricated finger in the anus, or may be a sex toy. Once you feel the sensation of pushing against a round lump, you have reached the prostate. Pressing or rubbing it, creates an intense pleasurable sensation for most men. Gently massaging the gland can produce explosive orgasms for many men, leaving them begging for more. While some men only like to have their prostrate touched when they are fully aroused, while others feel that having their prostrate stimulated increase their erection and leads to the best orgasms they’ve ever experienced.

You obviously need to have an open-minded woman to ask for anything that even remotely relates to your anus. So since you're one of the lucky ones, let's get kinky, shall we?

One day, when your woman is performing oral sex on you, let her stimulate your anus by rubbing it on the outside. You would not believe how incredible it feels when your penis and anus are being stimulated simultaneously.

If your woman is the "I'll try anything once" kind of gal, let her stimulate your anus with her tongue. Initially this may sound unappealing, but if you've just come out of the shower, then what's the problem? There are women that also love anal stimulation. Even if they don't have prostates, anal touching can be quite exciting for both sexes, although men have the advantage over women in that category!

Let her lick your testes and then move to that spot between your anus and your testes (perineum). She can even stimulate this spot with her fingers if she likes. Then gradually, she can move her tongue to your rectum and lick it slowly, as this may feel strange at first. This could feel increasingly amazing if she stimulates your penis with her hand at the same time.

Sex being an individual thing it is important that one is not moralistic about it. But there are certain things that one should be careful about.  Dr. Anil Oberoi, a sexologist from Kolkata says, “The anal canal can be infected with sexually transmitted diseases which may lead to Anal Cancer.” To counter that, he advises routine and pap smears. The other problems are abrasion and fissures.

Before being naughty and adventurous it is important to remember that each individual is unique in their habits. Since everyone is different and enjoys different things, experimentation is the best way to discover your preferences.

 More male E-zones 

His Ears 

USP: Bundles of nerve endings in and around the ears make them ultra sensitive to touch. 

His Lips 

USP: Lips are sensitive and for men it is easy to get him aroused just by kissing. Kissing lets him know that there is (probably) more “good stuff” ahead and that starts his mind fantasizing. 

His Neck 

USP: The neck is always a great place to turn on your partner. There are several things to keep in mind here, most importantly controlling your self. 

His Scalp 

USP: The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since he’s probably not expecting you to give any attention to it, surprise him by massaging or lightly scratching it. 

His Chest 

USP: To many men, the chest is one of their favourite body parts. To appreciate it is to appreciate the man. 

His Inner Thighs 

USP: Inner thighs are always a great place to turn your partner on, as they don’t get touched much during every day life